What is Christmas about?

It’s a question I know the answer to but one I’m asking myself every day around this time of year.  As the kids are growing, my heart wants so much to keep the craziness out of the season and to welcome a sense of peace and awe instead.

The simple story of Christmas is so profound, so beautiful and so humbling.


And it’s often so absent from the holiday entirely.

Before I say ‘so’ again, I just wanted to share a few ways we are trying to be deliberate about keeping the focus on the Gift that was given and hope that you will share any ways you’ve done the same!

  1. Last year we hosted an Operation Christmas Child shoebox filling party.  It was last minute, thrown together and small.  But as we sat and watched the DVD they sent us of children in poverty around the world opening their Christmas boxes filled with the simplest things – it was precious.  We were all blessed and it was a poignant reminder that even though many in our country have less than we’re used to, we still live in great abundance.
  2. We participate in an Adopt-a-Family program where we have gift specifics for a family in our community who can’t manage the basics of Christmas gifts.  The last two years Rylee and I have delivered these gifts together.
  3. We do the bulk of gift opening on various nights with family before Christmas and keep Christmas day sacred and simple.  There is no gift opening frenzy but there are new toys around.  I’ll write another post about this day specifically.
  4. With no TV, our kids don’t really know what they want.  When I asked them to help me with a list for them, honestly they had trouble.  They aren’t saints, they simply play with what they have, don’t go to toy stores and don’t see commercials every day for the latest thing.  While you could argue they are deprived, we’d disagree and say that it works for us!
  5. To make room for new things and to maintain the ‘others mentality’, we have the kids choose one thing each (at least) to give away to someone who would enjoy it.  Something cool and in good shape, not something destined for the trash.

If you have time and want to participate, the Operation Christmas Child organization is wonderful.  With one click on their website you can order a ‘party pack’ (mailed to you for free!) with all sorts of fun supplies, including a very moving DVD, coloring sheets, stickers and pictures of kids with their boxes.

I also read this post on simplemom that had some great ideas on helping your kids focus outward during Christmas.

These are some favorite books that have helped us to focus and mold our own traditions for Christmas as we have established our family.

Any ideas or traditions or books you would be willing to share on this topic?



The crippled lamb is one of our favorites, Im sure you know why especially:)


Just reading your comment makes me cry Jenna, it is a precious perspective and one so absolutely true. Do you have the DVD and the book?

Kristin McKinnon

Thanks for sharing all this Karissa! I’m on a journey to celebrate Christmas in a way that truly honors God. It seems like each year I pick something else up (last year it was the Operation Christmas Child from you – we’re hoping to host a party – I just ordered supplies!). I just bought the book “The Advent Jesse Tree: Devotions for Children and Adults to Prepare for the Coming of the Christ Child at Christmas”. There are 25 Christmas ornaments to go with the devotion for each day of December, and a friend of mine organized 25 moms to each make 25 ornaments of the same devotion. I’m excited.


Very cool!! I love that you are making your very own Christmas traditions!